Parashat Shoftim — May Lead to Mixed Dancing
Rabbi Ari Kahn
Exploring the Slippery Slope of Celebration and Boundaries in Jewish Thought
From what I can tell, there are two types of slippery slope arguments: the kind we make (which we tend to like), and the kind others make (which we tend to dismiss). Most people use the phrase “slippery slope” to highlight how a seemingly minor action could lead to an extreme or absurd conclusion.
Orthodox Jews, however, have their own version of this argument—often delivered with a touch of irony:
“Well, that may lead to mixed dancing.”
It’s usually said with a chuckle, but I suspect most people have no idea where this phrase originates or what it’s actually referencing. Surprisingly, its roots may lie in an understanding of something written in this week’s parsha, Shoftim.
Shoftim and Shotrim: Judges and Enforcers
The parsha opens with the command:
“שֹׁפְטִים וְשֹׁטְרִים תִּתֵּן לְךָ בְּכָל שְׁעָרֶיךָ”
“You shall appoint judges and officers in all your gates” (Deuteronomy 16:18).
The Torah is clearly concerned with maintaining order. A shoter—whether a police officer or someone who enforces judicial decisions—is part of a system designed to uphold justice.
Rabbi Mordechai Yaffe (the Lavush), a 16th-century halachic authority and student of the Rema, offers a subtle insight. Though he doesn’t cite this verse directly, he implies a connection between the end of last week’s parsha (Re’eh) and the beginning of Shoftim.¹
Joy, Celebration… and Boundaries
Parashat Re’eh ends with a discussion of the holidays—joyous occasions filled with celebration and communal festivity (Deuteronomy 16:13–17). The transition from joy to judgment may seem abrupt, but the Lavush—and even the non-Jewish chapter divisions attributed to the Archbishop of Canterbury²—suggest continuity. The Torah moves from celebration to regulation, from joy to oversight.
Why? Because joy, especially when accompanied by wine and music, can lead to poor decisions. The Talmud hints at this concern:
“אין שמחה אלא בבשר ויין” — “There is no joy except with meat and wine” (Pesachim 109a),
but also warns of the dangers of intoxication and frivolity.
The Rambam codifies this in Hilchot Yom Tov:
“When eating and drinking, one must not be drawn to laughter, frivolity, or drunkenness... this is not joy, but debauchery.”³
He also notes the need for communal oversight during holidays to prevent inappropriate behavior.
From Celebration to Concern
This idea—that celebration requires boundaries—was taken seriously by halachic authorities. The verses in Shoftim speak of national identity: a homeland, a central place of worship, and a judicial system. But once these concepts were abstracted from their national context, they were applied to communal life in a broader sense.
And that’s where the concern about dancing comes in.
Rabbi Baruch Steinhardt of Germany, in the 18th century, warned that dancing—especially when combined with alcohol and music—could lead to mixed dancing.⁴ His caution wasn’t about dancing per se—it was about what dancing could lead to.
This concern was echoed by major halachic figures:
- Rav Akiva Eiger wrote in his glosses to Shulchan Aruch that one must be cautious about gatherings that could lead to frivolity and immodesty.⁵
- The Chafetz Chaim, in Mishna Berurah, also emphasized the importance of maintaining decorum during celebrations.⁶
They both referenced the need for vigilance, lest joy turn into impropriety.
Is This Still Relevant?
It’s easy to be cynical. “That may lead to mixed dancing” has become a punchline. But in a post–Me Too world, where we’ve seen how blurred boundaries can lead to real harm, perhaps this concern deserves a second look.
The Torah’s juxtaposition of joy and judgment isn’t accidental. It’s a reminder that holiness doesn’t mean rejecting joy—it means sanctifying it. And sometimes, that requires boundaries.
Footnotes
- Lavush, Orach Chaim, commentary on the structure of parshiot and their thematic transitions.
- The chapter divisions in the Bible were introduced by Stephen Langton, Archbishop of Canterbury, in the 13th century.
- Rambam, Hilchot Yom Tov 6:20.
- Rabbi Baruch Steinhardt, cited in responsa literature regarding communal dancing and modesty.
- Rav Akiva Eiger, glosses to Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 529.
- Mishna Berurah 529:17.